The Expatriate's Carrd.

Welcome to the Info Carrd for my (mostly) fandomless original character, Pari!
Before you click the info page and rule page, there's a few things that need to be addressed first. -1): I completely understand that the rules I have may be rather strict in comparison to some, I haven't put them in place to be hostile or to ward people off. The reason they are in place is because while I've been rping on here for over 13 years, there have been many instances where things have went awfully wrong and I've had to put these boundaries in place.2) Please note that there are subject matters that are considered triggering on this RP Blog which are: being in an abusive relationship, infertility and occasional acts of violence. I will however tag these accordingly without a need for prompting.3) The Mun is well over the age of 18.4) I've only got the one muse and that's Pari who this blog pertains to. I don't have any other rp blogs and I unfortunately don't rp as any other characters and most likely never will want to. If that's not your jam, you're free to soft block/hard block/unfollow and there's no hard feelings on my part.5) Please note that I'm not here to catch anyone out, I just want to share my writing with you all and create some awesome stories with you all!If you would like to proceed, click on the rule page and info page button when you're ready!
Thank you :) - Mun x

Rules and Guidelines

I apologise in advance for how very long winded this rule page is, but thank you for hitting the link and wanting to take a look!
And now, the Rules of Engagement:First of all, if you end up following me I’ll usually read your rules before following back. A force of habit, really. But if I can’t find them, I’ll always ask for a link :)If I'm following you first, rest assured that I will have read your rules prior to doing so!I'm a mun in my late thirties, but this main blog is very much safe for work and anything even close to being suggestive will be tagged as such.My time zone is GMT+00, so my activity timing may be vastly different to yours. However, rest assured that I will get back to you!Another point to bring awareness to is that I have an anxiety disorder and have done since being very young. Sometimes I can be chatty as heck, some days I won't feel up to talking all that much but please understand that this is something I'm working to improve. Please be patient with me, and I'll absolutely be patient with you.To add to the above, I also suffer from chronic pain so my drive to reply to things can be effected by that. It's absolutely not a slight on you or your writing, sometimes I just want to rest and do small things.I’m very OC Friendly, which is pretty obvious as this too is an OC blog.I’m also very welcoming to canon and canon divergent rp blogs too!Have a self-insert that you want to rp with? Send ‘em in! I love those too.I no longer RP on Skype, but I do have a Discord which is: OminousDong.I also no longer take on IM rp’s, unless the other person I’m writing with doesn’t have anything like Discord. However, the mileage will vary.I do all sorts of rp length! Ranging from one liners, to short stuff and paras. I tend to try and match my partner or whatever they prefer. Please let me know in that instance!I am not accepting magic anons at present. The anonymous function is also on at present but it is subject to change.I don't do chain messages, sorry. I appreciate the sentiment with the positive inbox ones, but please understand that I don't partake in them.I’m not a fast rper. A lot of the time, I will use the queue system for replies and I will aim to answer things at least a couple of times each day, if not at least once.I’m also not very fast at answering IM messages either but I will respond when I have an opportunity to do so, so please bear with me and I really do appreciate your patience.I'm all about people keeping their dash the way they want to, and I absolutely don't take getting soft blocked/blocked personally.If it's a case of writers not meshing or things not working out, I completely understand the need to soft block/block. Rest assured I also will not go chasing after you regardless of what happens. Your dash should be your happy place and I respect that :)If there's been any instance where I've said something/done something that's been way out of line and made you feel uncomfortable, please please let me know. I make mistakes sometimes and I genuinely don't want to hurt anyone but if I do, talk to me about it and I'll hold my hands up and not make the same mistake again.I'll not be a massive arsehole about being told where I've messed up, and it means I can learn from my mistakes and hold myself accountable.I am very much against the nature of callout culture against others unless there is documented evidence regarding extremely problematic and harmful behaviour and the head’s up is given to keep people from being hurt and to stay safe. Any posts which come into that fold will be tagged as such.This is an extremely obvious rule but I absolutely do not want to interact with anyone at all who engages in pedophilia, racism, bigotry, homophobia, transphobia, ableism and the other obviously nasty things. No exceptions. And if I find that anyone I know does engage in those awful things, you’ll be getting an instant block from me.I do actually have a few personally triggering topics so if you could please tag the following things I would appreciate that a lot:
- Eye Trauma
- Syringe Imagery (sounds weird, but I actually am terrified of needles. Which is weird as I’ve had piercings and tattoos but bear with me on this one.)
- Open Surgery Imagery
- Anything pertaining to sexual assault.
- Suicide and Self-Harm
Please please please keep those in mind, and please tag accordingly.I would prefer not to answer questions of a political nature as this blog and the writing here for me is a little bit of escapism. Please refrain from sending me such things, it’s very much appreciated.This blog is Semi-Selective, however, people who aren't mutuals are welcome to drop an ask and such. It's a case by case basis. I am however also Side-Blog friendly.If you’re looking for something a little more NSFW, there is now a sideblog where in which the threads of that nature live. If you're over 18 and comfortable with that content, the link is right here: https://the-knicker-drawer.tumblr.com/Pari doesn’t get on well with everyone she meets instantly. Most of the time she can be very amiable but if a fellow muse antagonises her or just rubs her the wrong way, please be aware that she will respond in kind and sometimes can be prone to holding a grudge. If your muse falls into a category where this has happened, please do not expect her opinions to change overnight.I strongly suggest that if you have any doubts on muse interaction, please talk to me before interacting. It saves a LOT of problems.I am not Pari. Pari isn't me.On the subject of memes, if it’s a symbol/number one, please send in the question that accompanies it. I won’t know what I’m answering otherwise!I may not be familiar with a material that your muse is from, but I am more than happy to do research and work from that too, so don’t let that put you off.If your muse wants to do some serious damage to Pari, so long as it is discussed and plotted about properly, it’s acceptable. Feel free to drop a line my way and we can discuss it.A little request about RP’s where her infertility is concerned. Please do not put the pressure on for her to have a child, even though she actually can’t. Her infertility isn’t a be and end all factor, so please do not force the issue.None of the threads coincide with each other unless discussed by the Muns beforehand.English isn’t your first language? That’s okay! I’m willing to take that into consideration when it comes to partners.If there is a subject that crops up in an RP that I find particularly triggering, I’ll let you know and we can work something out. Same if it’s something that you find uncomfortable too.No godmodding, please.On the subject of shipping. Yep, Pari is multishippable, but that doesn’t exactly mean that she’ll fling herself at your muse for no reason. That's not how she works or how I work. If you're interested in shipping, come and have a chat with me and we can see how things go.Pari also isn’t a cheater. Ever. Kind of ties in with the different verse/partner rule.Absolutely no forced shipping has or will ever occur on my part. Have kept it this way for over 13 years so rest assured it won't happen. I'd like the same respect in return :)Last note on the shipping rules. Pari will not be in any romantic ships with anyone under the age of 21.One final note: I've been here a very long time. I've been threatened, coerced, manipulated and a lot of other nasty things besides that. I'm absolutely no doormat, so I won't take kindly to anything of the above happening.I absolutely loathe having to do this, but if you have taken the time to read these, please let me know by sending in this password into the ask box:YOU'RE MY MEOW MEOW!Or if you're nervous about sending in passwords as I know they're rather daunting, feel free to drop me a line in the IM's to say hello! I don't bite, promise :)Thanks for taking the time to read through this huge rule page, well done for making it this far and I hope to be writing with you soon!
PariMun/Nat x

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About Pari

Quite some time ago, a woman began a journey. A journey of rather epic proportions which probably caused a lot more chaos than intended:Name: Pari F. Vass (Can also be referred to as ‘P’, Miss Pari, or Captain Bluetit). She was named after a family friend of her late grandparent’s. The middle initial is for Florence, which was her grandmother’s name.Age: Early 30'sHeight: 5’4”Weight: 154lbsBlood Type: O - (O Negative)Eyes: Pale GreenHair Colour: Blue and it has often been described as being like cotton candy to the touch. Naturally it’s a dark blonde.Birthday: July 23rdAlignment: Chaotic Good(ish), mostly. Unless you happen to encounter her in a divergent verse which will be specified.Dominant Hand: Pari is ambidextrous, but tends to lean more to using her left hand.Sexuality: Panromantic/PansexualVoice Claim: Gwendoline ChristieThings you may notice: Blue hair aside, Pari currently has three tattoos (A set of stars trailing down her back, as well as a few stars on her left hip and a moustache on the inside of her left index finger) as well as eight piercings. Two in each ear, a midline tongue piercing, and three which aren’t actively on display.Medical Conditions: Premature Ovarian Insufficiency/Failure (Information on this can be found on: https://www.daisynetwork.org/about-poi/what-is-poi/, Shellfish Allergy.
Mental Health Conditions: Due to the abuse she received at the hands of Robert Kingsley and being abandoned and disowned by her birth mother at a young age,Pari has also been diagnosed with PTSD. However, she is seeking help for it. (More information on this can be found on: https://www.ptsduk.org/))Nationality: Pari is in fact from Worthing, England. Her place of origin may change however, again, this is verse dependent and on where she is placed after discussion with a writing partner.Occupation: Pari has a standard day job and tends to stick to bar work. Pulling pints, getting people hammered and generally giving some cranky yet witty banter with the clients.However, this hasn’t always been the case.Before she took up employment as a bartender, she used to be an Information Broker. Being hired by a certain party to collect information about another individual and sell the data on if requested. A rather secretive business which can often cause her to mask her identity prior to meeting a client.The thing is, and it’s something that she never admits, Pari often finds herself being drawn back into her former career. It is also worth noting that because of her former career path, she was something of a high commodity.Her notoriety has come however at a price.She was also attached to Robert Kingsley, one of the biggest names in the criminal scene in London.However, after being on the receiving end of his physical and mental abuse for too long she retaliated and had left him for dead.....
.. or so she thought. However, he's very much alive and not only himself but his entire criminal dynasty are out to try and locate her. And they want revenge.(Depending on the writing partner, she can be located pretty much anywhere and can go with any location).Personality: Pari can be very witty, very polite and professional on first encountering her. However, this is entirely incidental, depending on who she encounters.If it’s ever been with someone who pushes her too far, Pari has been reputed to be something of a hard arse, who can be utterly relentless and truly very scathing if put under enough stress or having to deal with closed minded people. On rare occasions, her biting sarcasm and attitude have often left people wondering if the events which made her be this way had left her a lot more jaded than what people expect.The truth is, she finds it very hard to be open with people, mostly because of people in her past who have manipulated her and hurt her. If you can manage to break that barrier with her, you may find that she can be very warm and protective.She isn’t one to turn a blind eye to someone who genuinely needs help and can and will be more than happy to put her talents to use.
Another thing to note is her often odd brand of humour, and is prone to having some very silly fronts. However it is worth noting that a lot of the humour is to downplay just how ruthless she can be.

Other Blogs

Pari's Sonic AU Blog: https://www.tumblr.com/roaring-thunder